It is 2.07 am and there is not a wink of sleep in my eyes. Now, I simply cannot waste my time trying to get any. Therefore I decide to pen down some thoughts.
Today, I had a short visit down the memory lane and it was such a joyful peregrination ! It all began with my husband discussing the idea of placing rocking chairs in a balcony. Suddenly I was full of beans describing a set of easy chairs that my grandfather possessed. They were folding wooden chairs with long handles and modest fabric seats. I was about seven years old then. My maternal grandfather's home had a fairly big backyard with a disheveled garden. Although the garden did not seem very impressive, it was a treasure- trove of flowers and fruits. Barka, my mother's uncle took care of it and the plants grew in the same haphazard fashion as his hair and beard!
Today, I had a short visit down the memory lane and it was such a joyful peregrination ! It all began with my husband discussing the idea of placing rocking chairs in a balcony. Suddenly I was full of beans describing a set of easy chairs that my grandfather possessed. They were folding wooden chairs with long handles and modest fabric seats. I was about seven years old then. My maternal grandfather's home had a fairly big backyard with a disheveled garden. Although the garden did not seem very impressive, it was a treasure- trove of flowers and fruits. Barka, my mother's uncle took care of it and the plants grew in the same haphazard fashion as his hair and beard!
The backyard lay behind Thami's room. Thami- our great grandmother, lived a hundred and four years. Her room was flanked by doors and windows overlooking the garden. The only pieces of furniture in this room were a bed and a Godrej steel cupboard. Yes, there was an inconspicuous wooden wall- cupboard too which stacked Dadu's homeopathic medicines. The main feature of this room was the idols and paintings of Gods and Goddesses carefully placed on an intricately carved wooden asana. Beside it was a miniature bed with a pretty mosquito net for the gods to sleep in.
Next to this bed was a diminutive wooden cupboard. From here came out a mélange of jars and bottles containing sacred waters , sweetmeats, cloths, incense sticks and other very interesting things. This room was called the 'Thakur ghor'- the god's room - and God's room it was! The mornings seemed heavenly here. Thami , in a crisp, immaculate white sari, sat in front of the deities lost in her prayers, and the white-gold sunshine streamed through the windows over the asana unto the whitewashed walls, lighting up the room. Thami's silky silver hair sparkled under the sunshine and the white bedspread seemed even whiter.
'Didi', my grandmother got up at 4.30 every morning and
plucked flowers for the prayers. Kathgolap, bel phul , shiuli,
aparajita, gaanda, there were so many ! Thami decorated these
artistically on the asana and lit incense sticks . The fragrance of
the flowers intermingled with that of the incense sticks disseminated
through the entire house and it is to this scent, that I awoke every
morning!
Often during the summer holidays Thami's room was our refuge from
the inexorable heat. I do not know how, but her room was always so
cool! On summer afternoons, Thami squatted on the threshold
overlooking the garden combing her glistening silver hair. In regular
intervals she inspected the comb with utmost concentration. Alas, her
scrutiny always ended up in vain. But her ceremonial combing continued
for over an hour, if not more. I cherished the summer afternoons here.
This was the time for our customary summer drink ' bael panna' ( made
from wood apple ). Didi made delectable ' bael panna'! She poured this
thick , sweet , golden hued drink into tall glasses and dunked a
couple of ice cubes into each. My duty was to place them on a tray and
carry it to Thami's room. How delightful it was to sip at the
ambrosia, sitting on the cool cement floor of the 'thakur ghor'. Four
generations together- Thami, Didi, Ma and I sat there chatting and
laughing! Sometimes the dainty bael panna was replaced by a rubicund
watermelon. Blackish green on the outside and deep red and sweet
inside. Sweet was the company too and sweet were those days!
aparajita, gaanda, there were so many ! Thami decorated these
artistically on the asana and lit incense sticks . The fragrance of
the flowers intermingled with that of the incense sticks disseminated
through the entire house and it is to this scent, that I awoke every
morning!
Often during the summer holidays Thami's room was our refuge from
the inexorable heat. I do not know how, but her room was always so
cool! On summer afternoons, Thami squatted on the threshold
overlooking the garden combing her glistening silver hair. In regular
intervals she inspected the comb with utmost concentration. Alas, her
scrutiny always ended up in vain. But her ceremonial combing continued
for over an hour, if not more. I cherished the summer afternoons here.
This was the time for our customary summer drink ' bael panna' ( made
from wood apple ). Didi made delectable ' bael panna'! She poured this
thick , sweet , golden hued drink into tall glasses and dunked a
couple of ice cubes into each. My duty was to place them on a tray and
carry it to Thami's room. How delightful it was to sip at the
ambrosia, sitting on the cool cement floor of the 'thakur ghor'. Four
generations together- Thami, Didi, Ma and I sat there chatting and
laughing! Sometimes the dainty bael panna was replaced by a rubicund
watermelon. Blackish green on the outside and deep red and sweet
inside. Sweet was the company too and sweet were those days!
Another feature of the thakur ghor was the warm welcome. Thami always
greeted us with a smile accompanied by words of affection and
adulation. When she was not praying, she was reading detective novels.
Dadu spent a lot of time in the thakur ghor. He prayed for four
hours a day- two hours before lunch and two hours before dinner! He
sat on a stool engaged in serious conversation with god and often made
hand gestures during these meetings.
Coming back to Dadu's easy chairs, they were folded and kept behind
a door adjacent to the thakur ghor. Often when the afternoon was
pleasant, Dadu set them up in the garden after lunch. Here, he sat engrossed,
reading corpulent homeopathy books and I sat down beside him playfully
decorating a cane stool with pink and white flowers. The loud chirping
of birds, the strong fragrance of ripened mangoes, the frolicking
florid butterflies, did nothing to disturb us. Only peace prevailed in
the solitude of the unkempt garden as Dadu and I kept ourselves busy!
It 's 4.08 am. Time to wind up. Should write more about those
Kolkata summers some day. Till then... Ciao!
this post sweeps me away to another world, sounds so idyllic. I can relate to some of your experiences, not all though. good times!
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